FATHERS AND FINANCES
December 1, 2018
What Is The Role of the Father?
Many people know that the role of the father is the provider of the home. The father is very important to the family because he is hard-working and always trying to keep the family up on their feet. This could be financially as well as physically. The father also wants to protect the family as much as possible from possible harm. This is why sometimes being a father can be stressful. I believe that God gave all of the men this responsibility before we came to earth so that they could feel like they really needed to protect their families and provide for them in such a way. The last thing that father's do is preside in the home. What does it mean to preside? Well in my opinion they are the one's who oversee things. I am going to talk about the role of mothers too here in a sec and how they oversee differently. But the fathers have to understand that they need to make a lot of the decisions when it comes down to it. Think about your own father now. Was he like this in your home? How was it different for you?
What Is The Role of The Mother?
Now, I know that the role of a mother can be different in other people's eyes, but normally the mother is the one who nutures the children. The one who cares for them and who takes care of them in the home. They usually prepare the meals for the kids as well as the husband. They also have the ability to bring in the children and help them learn in the home. The role of a mother is very important to the husband. Because he is trusting her in the home with the kids. She is a natural at what she does. Mothers always just have a way with children. Now think about your mother. Was she like this in your home too? How was it different in your own life?
How Do They Work Together?
THIS IS IMPORTANT. Together everyone!
Mothers and fathers need to understand that working together is very important. Working with each other on the same team will lead to a healthy marriage. I have noticed that when parents allow themselves to work together and make up for what the other one needs it helps the family out. For example: If the father has a full-time job and the mother does not, the mother has a responsibility to provide the meals in the home and keep it clean while watching the kids. The father understands that his role is important and fulfills it while the mother has no question about it and works just as hard without being paid. By working together a family is much much stronger. Working together is a big factor because while they work on raising their children, they have to be aware of many things. And by "things" I mean.... FINANCES.
Finances Within The Family
While money can make things complicated, I feel like we all should know how to manage our finances. The way that a family manages their finances can be a big influence in how they live. Studies have shown that parents who are more organized in spending money, often live off better than those who don't. And that makes perfect sense. I agree completely with that. We understand that it can be hard the first little bit when a family has new born babies or when someone might lose their job to keep the income still increasing. They have to make sure that the family is still getting all the things they need: food and clothes, etc.
I am eternally grateful for the family that I had growing up. My dad worked really hard to support us as a whole family. I could feel that he cared about our health and well being as well as my mom. They were equal partners in raising us. They wanted to live by a lot of things and one of the main things that they lived by was called "The Family Proclamation" Click Here to learn more about this document and what it explains about the role of a father and mother. I recommend you look at it because it has a lot of good information. I am so happy that I had a father who really cares about my family. He was always willing to care about my mother and willing to help her. My mom never worked a full time job when I was growing up. I was lucky to have a father who worked from home also. He works on computers so his office was in our our house. This was so cool because if I wanted to see my dad for a few minutes I could just knock on the door in his office and sit with him for a little bit. This helped all of us kids be able to bond better with our father. I am so grateful that I was able to grow up with a close father and mother.
I hope to implement the plan of keeping a good budget in my home as well as supporting my kids. I feel that if my husband acquires enough income than it will be up to me if I want to work. Right now, I am getting my degree in education. This means that I will be able to use this degree in a way that I will need in the future. I am super excited for this and I hope that it goes well!
And that's my blog post for this week! :)
What Is The Role of the Father?
Many people know that the role of the father is the provider of the home. The father is very important to the family because he is hard-working and always trying to keep the family up on their feet. This could be financially as well as physically. The father also wants to protect the family as much as possible from possible harm. This is why sometimes being a father can be stressful. I believe that God gave all of the men this responsibility before we came to earth so that they could feel like they really needed to protect their families and provide for them in such a way. The last thing that father's do is preside in the home. What does it mean to preside? Well in my opinion they are the one's who oversee things. I am going to talk about the role of mothers too here in a sec and how they oversee differently. But the fathers have to understand that they need to make a lot of the decisions when it comes down to it. Think about your own father now. Was he like this in your home? How was it different for you?
What Is The Role of The Mother?
Now, I know that the role of a mother can be different in other people's eyes, but normally the mother is the one who nutures the children. The one who cares for them and who takes care of them in the home. They usually prepare the meals for the kids as well as the husband. They also have the ability to bring in the children and help them learn in the home. The role of a mother is very important to the husband. Because he is trusting her in the home with the kids. She is a natural at what she does. Mothers always just have a way with children. Now think about your mother. Was she like this in your home too? How was it different in your own life?
How Do They Work Together?
THIS IS IMPORTANT. Together everyone!
Mothers and fathers need to understand that working together is very important. Working with each other on the same team will lead to a healthy marriage. I have noticed that when parents allow themselves to work together and make up for what the other one needs it helps the family out. For example: If the father has a full-time job and the mother does not, the mother has a responsibility to provide the meals in the home and keep it clean while watching the kids. The father understands that his role is important and fulfills it while the mother has no question about it and works just as hard without being paid. By working together a family is much much stronger. Working together is a big factor because while they work on raising their children, they have to be aware of many things. And by "things" I mean.... FINANCES.
Finances Within The Family
While money can make things complicated, I feel like we all should know how to manage our finances. The way that a family manages their finances can be a big influence in how they live. Studies have shown that parents who are more organized in spending money, often live off better than those who don't. And that makes perfect sense. I agree completely with that. We understand that it can be hard the first little bit when a family has new born babies or when someone might lose their job to keep the income still increasing. They have to make sure that the family is still getting all the things they need: food and clothes, etc.
I am eternally grateful for the family that I had growing up. My dad worked really hard to support us as a whole family. I could feel that he cared about our health and well being as well as my mom. They were equal partners in raising us. They wanted to live by a lot of things and one of the main things that they lived by was called "The Family Proclamation" Click Here to learn more about this document and what it explains about the role of a father and mother. I recommend you look at it because it has a lot of good information. I am so happy that I had a father who really cares about my family. He was always willing to care about my mother and willing to help her. My mom never worked a full time job when I was growing up. I was lucky to have a father who worked from home also. He works on computers so his office was in our our house. This was so cool because if I wanted to see my dad for a few minutes I could just knock on the door in his office and sit with him for a little bit. This helped all of us kids be able to bond better with our father. I am so grateful that I was able to grow up with a close father and mother.
I hope to implement the plan of keeping a good budget in my home as well as supporting my kids. I feel that if my husband acquires enough income than it will be up to me if I want to work. Right now, I am getting my degree in education. This means that I will be able to use this degree in a way that I will need in the future. I am super excited for this and I hope that it goes well!
And that's my blog post for this week! :)
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