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 Should I Keep Trying to Work It Out? Sacred and Secular Perspectives on the Crossroads of Divorce Chapter 8 Many couples feel that when their relationship is on the back burner they are in need of a divorce. When in reality, they need to consider that life isn't always sunshine and rainbows. I love talking about this topic because I know how good it feels to really work hard to get to that break through. And I promise you it WILL come! If you or someone you know is going through a hard marriage, unless their husband/wife is physically/mentally abusing them in any way, they should continue to work together as a team. Having a disagreement is a part of life.  A quote from this chapter that stood out to me was:  " Some divorces are necessary and just, and may actually serve to clarify the moral boundaries of marriage by identifying behavior that seriously violates marriage covenants. But both spiritual principles and secular learning should motivate us to do all we can to k...

The Warm, Happy Marriage: Cold, Hard Facts to Consider  Chapter 7 After reading this chapter, I was very intrigued by the different facts to consider in marriage. Now, if you are currently newly married, I want you to remember what I am going to write about today. I hope that it can make a positive influence on your life today and forever.  Many researchers throughout the times have studied married couples and opinions of being married. They have come to see conclusions that are negative and positive things about the concept of marriage. One being "but passé, unrealistic, and downright stifling." (p. 70). Others defending marriage as being one of the greatest things in this life. I find this so interesting how many different opinions can occur. It means that people often find marriage as a difficult thing and a waste of their time. Then, they end up practicing cohabitation, which studies have shown doesn't mean the couple will always stay together.  However, there are MAN...

  Marital Sexuality and Fertility  Chapter 5 How are you this week? I hope all is well. I know that there are some uncertain things happening in the world and I can see why you would feel such worry. But, do not fear, our Heavenly Father has a plan!  So, for this week's blog post I have been reading about Marital Sexuality and Fertility. But, before I continue with my thoughts I have a BIG announcement. I AM PREGNANT! This is my first baby and I am so full of gratitude! My husband and I are so excited, nervous, anxious, and feeling all the emotions! I think this announcement goes well with the material I have been studying all week!  Now, let's jump into the good stuff!!  When I got married I didn't have any experience with sexual relations before. So, I have learned so much since being married and how important it truly is. It is such a blessing that we have from our Heavenly Father to be able to use it in a healthy and godly way. In the text this week, I wante...

Foundational Processes for an Enduring, Healthy Marriage  Chapter 3 I loved reading this week's chapter about the foundational processes for an ongoing, growing marriage. It is truly a blessing we have on this Earth to be here and learn how to manage a good marriage. It gives me clarity that I know our Heavenly Father wants us to know how to do this before we leave this Earth and become like Him with our significant other.  Now I wanted to give you a basic summary of what this chapter has to offer for you in your marriage or even your future marriage. If all you remember after reading this blog post is how to keep that foundation strong then that's perfect!! I know you will be able to! Nurturing love and friendship is such a basic thing in a marriage that needs all the attention that it can have! It is very important to take the time to make sure your spouse is your best friend. Help that relationship by doing things to grow and nurture it. Relationships don't just have the...